BE SINGLE FOR REAL - Francis Okon

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BE SINGLE FOR REAL

MANY SINGLE LADIES HAVE BEEN COHABITING WITH MEN, PACKING THEIR CLOTHES TO A MAN'S HOUSE, HAVING SEX EVERY DAY AND WORKING AROUND WITH HIM EVERYWHERE AND STILL EXPECTING TO BE MARRIED!

THIS IS IMPOSSIBLE BECAUSE:

YOU ARE TOO MARRIED TO BE RIGHTLY MARRIED

The devil is accusing you always before God for this act, thereby making it difficult for God to push you to the next level in life.

(Marriage stage).

v A single lady who wholesomely attached herself to a man is doing herself more bad than good.

Why do you pack into a man's house who has not paid your bride price and marry you properly? Why are you creating problems for yourself; you both enjoys marriage privilege without paying any price
and followed the right processes.

NOTE:

This is an insult to god, your parents, the church, your body (the temple of god) and your community. When a man enjoys your service freely, he see no reason to pay your bride price, thereby ruining your chances of getting married and this prolong your single hood.

1.)          YOU ARE WASHING HIS CLOTHES.

2.)          COOKING FOR HIM.

3.)          YOU GIVE HIM SEX.

4.)          CLEAN HIS HOUSE AND DO EVERYTHING FOR HIM.
WHAT A DESTRUCTIVE GENERATION. WE ARE REALLY THE CAUSE OF OUR PROBLEMS.

PROVERBS 19:3 NIV: A PERSON’S OWN FOLLY LEADS TO THEIR RUIN, YET THEIR HEART RAGES AGAINST THE LORD.

v  ‘‘Do not be deceived, you are not yet married until you are properly married’’ (Pastor Ezekiel Atang).

NOTE:

When there is no commitment on the side of the man do not assume he will marry you what you should be busy doing now as a single, is to      see how you can improve and increase your worth spiritually, physically, academically, morally, domestically, psychologically etc. above all preparing for marriage and strengthening your relationship with god.

v  IF YOU DENY A MAN SEX AND MEAN IT WHOLEHEARTEDLY, HE WILL RESPECT YOU, EVEN IF HE ENDS UP NOT MARRYING YOU.

He respects you for life, and by this, your value increases and he speaks good about you even in the midst of his friends.
 

v  DO NOT BEG A MAN TO MARRY YOU, ELSE YOU WILL CONTINUE TO BEG HIM TO STAY.

He will always misbehave because you forced yourself on him.

NOTE:

Getting pregnant just to tie a man down is not just    tying only the man down, but its tying both of you and your destinies down.
A lady who is into dating as a full time wife will miss marriage opportunity thereby prolonging her single hood.

v  A man will see that you are a loose woman because he had sex with you over and over and enjoy the free services.

When he's tired of you, he will go out and look for a wife material ( a virtuous woman). This is a major cause of heartbreak and suicide in our today's world.

BUT YOU CAN AVOID THIS BY KEEPING YOURSELF FOR THE MAN WHO WILL MARRY YOU.

v  A lady who is having an affair with many men is known by a man who really wants to marry. Why? A godly man who wants to settle down becomes highly spiritual and sensitive in ever thing. God made it so.

1.       The man see the lady being overcrowded by several men's spirits that she wholesomely attached to, this makes a serious man unable to propose. It scare him away.

(This is a mystery).

v  NO YOUNG GODLY MAN WANTS TO MARRY OVERCROWDED WOMAN SO IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET MARRIED, BE SINGLE FOR REAL.